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You know you've received a backhanded compliment when it hurts. You feel slighted, yet the giver of the compliment is still smiling. You replay the conversation back in your mind. Yes, it definitely sounded like a compliment, but something isn't right. You've indirectly been insulted in the form of flattery. Here is a list of our favorite backhanded compliments that sound really kind, but are purely mean spirited.
#01
You're smart to do your laundry on Saturday night, when everyone else is out.
#02
You look like a porn star.
#03
If you were taller, you could be a model.
#04
Hey! Your face cleared up!
#05
Nice dress. I've seen a lot of girls wearing it, but I think it suits you most.
#06
I'm so jealous you don't have to wear a bra everyday.
#07
You're really filling out.
#08
It's so refreshing to have a conversation with someone who doesn't feel the need to prove they are smart.
#09
I think it's so cool that you're comfortable with how you look.
#10
That tasted better than it looked.
#11
Most guys think they have to have a cool car, but not you.
#12
You look so nice today, I almost didn’t recognize you.